"Conversation" between me and Amanda

Honestly, all of that information I would expect that he would tell you if he wanted you to know. This feels a lot like you're digging looking something, though I have no idea what, and given the tone of your last "digest", I see no reason to indulge your curiosity.

In what way are you hoping to benefit from the information? As far as where he went to camp, what he did, and what we did on the weekends, that's not exactly super confidential information. Anyone on my facebook page can see it. It was there for you to see if you were interested. Which is also that the way you're asking now sounds phony and conniving. Also, what's the thinking behind wanting to know his morning and evening routines?

There is still the question of how much boundaries between households should he be allowed? I never tell him not to tell you anything that he does or doesn't do up here. There must be a reason he would be unwilling to tell you something, so I don't feel comfortable betraying his confidence without more of an explanation, again, especially given the tone of your last "digest".

Why the disappearance of the "keyserver database"?

--- On Tue, 8/24/10, Russell Hires wrote:

From: Russell Hires
Subject: Re: While David was with you...
To:
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010, 2:30 PM

I'm not asking for a daily accounting, but how about some of the high-lights, like, just a brief accounting of where he went to day camp, what kinds of activities they do there, his bed-time routine, mornings, what you did on the weekends, if he saw any of his other extended family.


On Aug 24, 2010, at 1:29 PM, - wrote:

I didn't say that, I just want to know what stuff you're sending me in email first. What exactly are you wanting to know? It's odd that he doesn't want to tell you? We do need to decide how much privacy and separation we're going to allow him as he grows.

--- On Tue, 8/24/10, Russell Hires wrote:

From: Russell Hires
Subject: Re: While David was with you...
To:
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010, 12:19 PM

It just says that it's me, that you check against a keyserver database, it's proof of my identity, that the email was sent by me. I guess you're not going to tell me what happened for 5 weeks while David was with you?

On Aug 24, 2010, at 9:55 AM, - wrote:

That doesn't tell me what it is?

--- On Tue, 8/24/10, Russell Hires wrote:

From: Russell Hires
Subject: Re: While David was with you...
To:
Date: Tuesday, August 24, 2010, 6:20 AM

It's just something I wanted to get back to. I had done this a long time ago, and thought it interesting to do again. So can you give me some kind of run-down on what you guys did for 5 weeks?

On Aug 24, 2010, at 7:15 AM, wrote:

What's up with the PGP signed message stuff in your emails lately?

--- On Mon, 8/23/10, Russell Hires wrote:

From: Russell Hires
Subject: While David was with you...
To:
Date: Monday, August 23, 2010, 10:08 PM

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Hey...could I get some kind of idea what David was up to for the 5 weeks he was up there? I really have no clue, and he doesn't really want to say much, and I don't feel that I should ask him a bunch of questions...He did tell me about getting kicked out of camp, and you did tell me about the beads and him handling his behavior, but I don't really know much more than that. Can you fill me in?

Thanks.

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David Weekly, V3 - 25

Hello all! I hope your summer has been good. Now that he's back, I've been preparing David for kindergarten. Strangely, he doesn't seem all that excited about it.

By the way, I think I might switch sending these out on Sunday nights, rather than Friday nights. We'll see how that goes.

I went to St Louis to pick David up at the airport. Amanda pulled up at the drop off, and told me that David had had a hard day, wondering why he couldn't stay at the Missouri, why he couldn't go to the same school as his sissy...and crying at various points. When he saw me, he looked like he'd been crying already, and then cried some more. I just went to him and held him for a while, and told him I understand about mixed feelings, wanting to stay, and wanting to go, and that it’s hard. I asked him if he’d eaten, and he said no, so I tried to distract him by asking what he wanted to eat. He said a sandwich...but he was ready to go, so I told him to give his mommy a hug and a kiss before we go, so he did, crying the whole time, and then he took my hand, and we walked slowly into the terminal. After a few more minutes, he brightened up a bit, which made it easier to get through security. As we were walking through the terminal, he told me that he got kicked out of one of his camps, for hitting/fighting. This was a bit of a surprise for me, of course, but he said it all like it wasn't a big deal. I talked to him about not hitting, asking why he fights, and so on...he knows better, but I don't think he can help himself. The plane was late getting to the airport, then the pilot was late getting to the airport, but not too too late, so we just hung around the terminal, and decided to eat the sandwiches we bought later, rather than on the floor in the waiting area by the boarding gate. David had fun watching the planes take off and land, and asked me again about what kind of plane we're getting into, the big one or the small one? I tried to explain, as we were taking off, how the plane we were in was shrinking, but he wasn't buying it. Surprisingly, David stayed awake on the plane the whole flight, and even when we were driving home in the car he stayed awake. Finally got home around 10 PM, and he fell promptly asleep. He never did eat the sandwich. But he did play with the little games they give the kids on the plane, and colored, and after a while I let him play a game on Cinnamon's iTouch (that she let me borrow for this trip).

The next day, Sunday, we went to Rachel's house, played with Avery and Jared all day. He is much less afraid of the water, and while it doesn't seem that he'd had swimming lessons, it did seem like did spend more time in the water. He is much better able to handle being around Avery and Jared, as he is catching up with them in terms of his maturity. They'll always be older than him of course, but he's so much more out of the baby stage that it makes a huge difference in his ability to interact. They played very well, and didn't ever fight, except play fighting.

On Monday, he went back to day care, and had a good day. He went back in there, as if he'd never been away.

On Tuesday, David discovered his leapster. And then played on it, a lot. He really likes it. He also wanted to play "light sabers" which consists of us hitting them against each other. The thing is, he can do this for an hour without stopping.

Wednesday, went to the YMCA to sign David up for swimming lessons. Since he hadn't had any over the summer, I figure that now is the time to get this done, before it gets cold, and then maybe we'll do a refresher in the late spring. He's also a member now, so he can be involved in other activities, like soccer. He was excited about that, but kept saying, "I already know how to play that game." I simply told him that it's just a fun thing to do, not a "learn how to do it" kind of thing. That seemed to mollify him. He also did not want to get his picture taken for the ID card. Refused refused. Some more convincing and cajoling on my part took place, and eventually, he was sitting down and smiling for the camera. He told me that he doesn't like his picture taken because he doesn't like the way he looks. I told him that he looks fine, and is the cutest kid ever.

Friday, David had two doctor appointments, one with Dr. Siegel the allergist, and another with Dr Sams, for his well-care/birthday/annual checkup. Dr Siegel said things are ok, and Dr Sams said the same thing! David is now 45 pounds and 45 inches tall, has 20/20 vision, his ears looked good, and is in the 90th percentile for height, and 75th percentile for weight. He had to urinate into a cup, which caused him some consternation, as he just didn't want to do it! But I figured out a way to get him to go...but the worst part was the prick to his thumb to test for anemia (he's in the perfectly normal range). The prick to his thumb was TRAU-MATIC. He cried and cried and it was the worst thing in the world! He didn't like his skin being broken like that, and while I know it hurts, it was almost too much for him. He didn't really know what was going on at first, even after the pin-prick, until the nurse squeezed to get the blood. It's at this point that he began to wail...poor kid! And he cried for a while, and wanted a band-aid, and his crying was loud! Even though I tried to shush him a little bit, calm him down...he wasn't having it. He did settle down finally, and then I took him to the day care...where he had 5 check marks this week! As part of his reward, I bought him two books. He was very happy about this!

Friday night we went to his school's Open House, to meet his teacher, and to get a feel for what the routine is going to be, and what the school will be like. His teacher is going to be Ms Perez, and she is a third year teacher. I asked the school about grades; there will not be any for the 1st nine weeks. After that, I will copy report cards and send them on...

Saturday he and I went on a few errands to get some things for school, and then to go hang out at Rachel's and go swimming again. We all had fun.

Sunday was a workday for me, so I went to work, and he was babysat...and that's a week.

Rusty

David Weekly, V3 - 24

David had his birthday party at Dinosaur World on Saturday, and it was hot! He wasn't afraid of the dinosaurs the same way he was last year, except that he was still afraid of the T. Rex. Along one of the paths, Jesse found a blue salamander, and the kids all got to see it, and touch it before it ran off into the woods. There was a giant puzzle near the entrance that he got to take apart and put back together. It was at least as big as he is! He had a lot of fun! Because of how hot it was, David was actually asking me for a bath when he got home. He said to me, quite loudly, "This party is awesome!" I think he liked his Dinosaur World trip. :-) His cake was a dinosaur cake that we got at Publix, and he loved it! It had little dinosaur figurines on it, and a volcano and a little lake/pool on the other end. In the center was chocolate pudding, and the cake itself was chocolate. We had his party in a "cave", which is a picnic area inside a tunnel made to look like a cave, and it had some picnic tables in there... David thought that was awesome, too. It was dark and "echo-y", which the kids loved. David invited about as many adults as kids. The kids were Jacob (a boy David met through Jesse, because she babysits David and Jacob), Sebastian, Shawn, Avery, and Jared. But he wanted Jesse to be there, and Mimi, and Rachel, and Cinnamon. I asked him about inviting anyone from his school, and he didn't think of anyone he'd like to have along.

Of course, David got some presents. Here's what he got: A leapster, with a Nemo game to go with it, a Cars "ninja knockout" track set, a book called "Dinosaur Days", Transformers Blendy-Pens, lots of beach stuff (a pail and shovel, and bag for carrying stuff, a frisbee, some water balls to throw around, and a couple of other things), a sticker book about dinosaurs, a read-in-the-dark story book (with flashlight), a 3D dinosaur puzzle, some nice clothes, some puzzles, and some "science stuff" - a Sponge Bob bag, with a butterfly net, binoculars, a flashlight, and a bug collection case.

David had a great week for his birthday week. He got a special hat on his actual birthday at his school, and he wore it proudly. He also said something interesting: he's a big boy now, so doesn't need his buddy anymore. Well, maybe he needs it at night for sleeping, he said, and for in the car...but not for school. I told Ms. Tiffany about that, and she was happy, because it apparently causes problems at the school. He had second thoughts by the next day, wanting to bring the buddy to school, but I reminded him to stay strong, and that he's a big boy now, and doesn't need it as school. I told him that it must be a good thing because he got check marks all week for his behavior, so we went to McDonald's for his special treat on Friday. The issue with the buddy was an on-going discussion all week long, both before and after school.

We went to Chuck E Cheese's on Tuesday, his actual birthday. He'd been building up the idea that I would have the day off, and he'd not have to go to school...but I wasn't able to get the day off, and after I explained this to him, he was ok. He loved playing in the tubes that are ceiling level, and go over about a quarter of the restaurant. Another child was celebrating his birthday with a party there, and the rat (mouse?) comes out and "sings" and pays special attention to the birthday child and such. Now, a side note here. We had just gotten our pizza, and were sitting down to take a bit when the show got started. I got up to see what it was, but David figured it out before I did, and he actually brought my plate with my pizza on it to me to take to another table that was closer. It wasn't his plate, it was mine! He soooo much wanted to see the thing. I let him sit and watch, and I moved our stuff to the table, so he could stay. Interestingly, he expressed no envy or jealousy of this other child's celebration.

July first, a Thursday, David wakes up and says "It's July, daddy!" He's really keeping up with the days of the week, and the dates that go with them. He's also really liking to count. He can count to 100 mostly by himself. He seems to miss the number 7 sometimes, and skips it, going from 6 to 8, in each group of 10, and I have to remind him of each 10 ('fifty' 'sixty' 'seventy' and so on), as well. He got to 112 and was very happy with himself, and in addition, a big number is now 135!

For the 4th of July, it was a rainy, wet weekend, although the weather cooperated by being overcast, keeping the temperature down, and only raining when we were not outside. So on July 3, the City of Temple Terrace held Independence Day celebrations on July 3. We went to the parade in the morning, and in the evening went to the golf course to watch fireworks. While waiting for the parade and fireworks, we took a ball to play with. David hates taking turns - the kind where other people get turns, too. He has a very low frustration threshold, and also hates to lose, even when we're not playing in any kind of competitive way. So Saturday night we were waiting for fireworks, and we made friends with another single dad and his two girls (one was 8 and the other 12) at the golf course, and we were kicking a ball around, except that other people got turns, too. David was very unhappy at this turn of events, and I had to sit him down on the chair to calm down a couple of times, since it would just make him cry. And then he would cry a few minutes, very loudly. At some point he got up and went to play in one of the sand traps, and met another little girl, closer to his age, and when I went to check on him, he introduces me to Sophie. ("This is Sophie!") They were having a grand ol' time playing in the dirt, and throwing rocks (no one was around to get hit by the rocks)...I made sure that David had on some glow sticks/glow necklace so I wouldn't lose him in the dark. Besides, he thought it was great. David also ended up in the grass, so he's suddenly having itchy issues. He takes his Xyzal in the morning, and the Hydroxizine at night, but it's not enough to counter-act the grass. I just make sure to wash him well at night...and we had a very late night on July 3. But he loved loved loved the fireworks.

Sunday, July 4, we went to church in the morning. It was a combined service, and was originally intended to be outside, but as it was pouring down rain, outside didn't happen. David did very well in sitting down while most of it was going on, and didn't really protest much at about having sit still. Eventually, we ate lunch at the chuch, and then went outside to play on the water slide. It worked out because of the rain, which had slacked off to a sprinkle, and it was still overcast. Of course, he got more grass on him, and lots of mud. He had so much fun! When it was time to go, he went very willingly. He was tired! We got home, I gave him a bath, and then set him up on the couch to watch some TV, and ... zzzzzzzzzzz He fell right asleep. We then went to Mimi's for more July 4 celebrating. He loved the cheap, grocery store fireworks, that mainly throw sparks.

I've also been talking with him about keeping in touch while he's up at the Missouri. He doesn't know what to think about it, really. Neither do I. I figure once a week should be good...

Monday, we went to his grandparents' house up in Leesburg, so he could make the trip up to the Missouri. When we got there, he immediately went up to grandpa (aka Matt), and got a big hug. He was very good, and was definitely showing off, too. He was growly and feisty wanting to wrestle around and such. I showed them the dance recital, and the pictures I've sent up with him, and David got in the way, in that he would stand directly in front of my computer so no one else could see. It was actually pretty funny.

So that's a week and a half worth of things. David did pretty well in saying goodbye when it was time for me to go, and didn't cry too much. He has a good grandpa, because grandpa was very comforting to David, just holding him. I told David he needs to go see his mom, and that it's ok to miss me, but also not to worry about me missing him. It's good for him to see her. He called me before bed time to say good night. As I write this, he is on his way to the Missouri. And I'll be taking a 5 or 6 week break from writing this little weekly letter. Have a good summer.

David Weekly, V3 - 23

David did better at the recital than he did at the dress rehearsal. He was such a good performer! I will send pictures and video on disk when he goes back up there in July. There's a production company that professionally makes video of the kids dancing, so I'll make a copy or two and send those as well. On Tuesday (the day he was sick), he was asking about dancing practice: he wanted to be there for that. I told him that for the summer, there's no dancing. When he comes back from the Missouri, I'll see what I can do to make sure he's dancing again, and I'm thinking also of putting him in a sport, like soccer.

David loves going to Jesse's church...

David got a dinosaur egg from Cracker Barrel. The way it works is is that you set it in water for 24 - 48 hours, and it sssssssllllllllooooooowly hatches. David got really excited when it made the slightest change, which also means he was really keeping his eye on it. It hatched after two days, and then we took it out of its shell, because it was supposed to grow more.

Sunday, Mimi came over to our house for Father's Day, and David got out the book "There's a Wocket in my Pocket" (by Dr. Seuss) and read it to Mimi. There were a few words he doesn't know still, but he did a great job anyway. Most importantly, he did this completely of his own volition. He notes, too, that the book has a lot of rhyming words.

Monday was a bad day for David: he bit another child, and it would seem that it was for no other reason than the other child looked at David the wrong way. So, in addition to getting an X on the calendar, and no treat, I also took away TV, and have him go into Time Out when he got home. I don't know what to say or do to prevent this behavior, or what drives it.

Tuesday, David brought "There's a Wocket in my Pocket" to school, to show Ms. Tiffany that it has a lot of rhyming words. After about 2 seconds of showing it to her, David sat on the floor, and began to read the book aloud, with no one in particular to read it to, and a group of kids gathered around him to watch him read it! It was quite an amazing thing. And he read the book (mostly). He was very proud of himself for this. And so am I. Unfortunately, this is offset by his behavior: he spit on another child. Ms. Yolanda (another new teacher) and I discussed this a little bit, and it seems that David does not deal with rejection very well.

Wednesday was a good day for David (finally!). He got chocolate chip cookies for his reward.

Random detail: when Mimi was at our house, she called for me from the other room, and David came to me to say "Daddy, your mom wants you in the other room." It was interesting to see him figure out how to say that, and to take himself out of the relationship equation, as if it's not Mimi, or that I'm not his dad...

Friday morning, another trip to the doctor revealed that he still has nodules of some kind on his throat, so we swabbed it again and are having it sent to the lab for testing. He finished his medicine like a champ, but was happy when he didn't have to take it anymore. I asked the doctor about how often he gets sick, and she said he's one of the healthier children in her practice.

So another week has gone by...

David Weekly, V3 - 22

I forgot to mention that David got a medal for his dancing. He was very proud of it.

I also forgot to talk about his behavior from the calendar perspective: Thursday (June 10), he got neither a check mark, nor an X. It was an ambiguous day for him. David didn't like that. It's a big blank. He isn't sure what to do about that, because he had a bad day, in that he was very handsy and aggressive, but at the same time, did go to Time Out the way he was supposed to, and didn't challenge the teacher. As a result of this, I wasn't sure what to put, but it did get us to tightening the standards of what's expected to get a check mark. Friday, no one could think of anything, so that means, we hope, that he had a good day - his behavior didn't stand out.

Sunday morning, I had David help me with making blueberry muffins. He really likes doing that.

David went to Jared's birthday party, and had a blast. He was finally big enough to keep up with Jared and his friends. That made him very happy. David was, in fact, very well behaved at the party, all the way around.

After the party, we were hanging out at Rachel's house. David, when told by Avery, "Working through the pain," repeated after her, "Working in the paint." Avery thought that was sooo funny. Another thing David said was that we have to make sure to get Jared a birthday card for his birthday to make sure he "won't ever have another birthday again." So the implications of not getting a birthday card for Jared are dire: if we don't, he'll never have another birthday again!

Tuesday morning, David woke up with another fever. Another trip to the doctor revealed that we needed Augmentin, since the 10 days' worth of Amoxycillin didn't do the trick, apparently. Everyone (not just the doctor) asked me if I gave him the full course, and I said I did, since it's easy to just add another medicine to our daily routine of Xyzal in the morning, and Hydroxizine at night. So we stayed home Tuesday, and David took a nice long 3 hour nap in the middle of the day, didn't eat a whole lot, asked to have his temperature taken a lot, drank lots of gold-juice (orange juice), played a little bit on the computer, watched lots of kids' shows on TV...he wasn't as bad as last time he got sick, which was good. I allowed him to "keep" his fever since it never got higher than 101, and he wasn't too uncomfortable. It went away on its own by Wednesday morning, after two full doses (7.5 mL) of medicine, which David does not like.

David says: "Hello to all his friends from Florida to everywhere else, and I'm a little shy and I sometimes I am not and somebody hits me and I tell the teacher, and the little boy with a pointy head, he has a different head than us, and then he knocked down a whole big entire builiding w/ legos and I helped him build another one. And we had fun but he made another one then I went in Time Out and I stayed in Time Out until I played a game like hand and foot...you put each hand and foot on each color. And then Tremon did it, ... His name is Tremon, and when he left I got it and I did and then we were done."

- So it would seem he played Twister, and does and does not get along with another boy who has some serious hair going on. The staying in Time Out issue he's referring to is one of our big challenges: staying in Time Out when he's told. He gets so worked up about whatever it is (one of my big frustrations is I don't know what triggers this anger, no matter how many times I ask. David doesn't know - or isn't telling - and the teachers aren't so interested, or they are too used to kids fighting, but whatever it is, they just want it to stop) that he doesn't stop to calm down, and has to get in the last hit, no matter what.

Except for him being sick, this has been a pretty uneventful week. He was looking forward to more dancing, but since it's summer, no dancing. He also asks me all the time what various numbers added together are. "What's 2+2, daddy?" And so on.

David's birthday is coming up in 9 days. Things I think he would like: puzzles, dinosaur anything, more books, bakugon stuff, hot wheel cars, more stuff for him color with, clothes...this is the only child I've ever seen be very happy with getting clothes as a gift. He seems more content with not wearing red so much, by the way. And we're having his party at Dinosaur World again. David is very excited.

David Weekly, V3 - 21

David found his harmonica, and was playing "songs" on it. Normally, most kids that get a harmonica play with it by making some sounds, and then they're done, off to other things. But not David. He really played it for a while. Made me get my bamboo flute out and we played together...you're probably glad you missed the cacophony, but David watched me, and imitated some of my movements, like me licking my lips (which he imitated by licking his own lips), and saying "I taught myself this song", because that's what I had said about playing (I played do-ra-mi). He will pick it up and play it from time to time now, and uses the music as part of the stories he tells me about things at school, or whatever else is on his mind.

Lots of tidbits this week:

When David was sick last week, he was feeling hopeless: "I'll never get better" and he describes his being sick as "seasick."

David doesn't get the idea of "tall" vs "long"...so everything is a certain amount of tall...

Saturday morning, we went to the dojo to watch the karate class. I think we're going to wait for another year maybe for him to go to karate, because David wasn't totally getting it. It wasn't karate the way he was thinking, I think, because it was a class, with lots of practice and drills, and even the instructor was a little leary of having someone so young as the boy there. I did feel that it was a good choice, because it was truly defensive teaching, and based on character, and doing the right thing. There really was a lot of karate going on, it just didn't have the flash that I think he was expecting. He often got bored, and wanted to play, rather than watch. We watched the class in the background, and did a few of the exercises along with the class. David actually liked that part. He just requires more time and attention, and maybe a more age appropriate group. I'm still figuring it out. We may explore some other schools to see if there's something more suitable for him.

Went to the beach on Saturday evening. At one point I told David we have to start walking back toward our stuff, since the waves had carried us down the beach. On our way back, David said in a funny voice: "The waves are saying, 'Rusty and David, go this way...'" I about fell over laughing. What a great sense of humor this boy has!

Tuesday night, saw another kid down the street playing. He's Tyler, age 6. We went down to introduce ourselves, and hopefully these two boys can play some more in the future. David and Tyler didn't really interact as much as appreciate the fact that they were in the same playing area.

For David's behavior: I was told by Ms Tiffany that David's been acting out lately, but she hasn't been able to tell me about his behavior (because I get there after she leaves), so we will get a calendar at school for his behavior, too.

David's concept of a big number is 29. It's comparable to 1,000,000. He says something like, "I can count to 29, it's a big number, like a million!" ...When making other types of comparisons, he talks about "our land"...

David reacts to the TV more, when something is going "wrong", such as Curious George on TV doing the wrong thing, David sees this and will hide, or shout, or groan loudly, or go into the other room until the conflict has passed, which is usually a few seconds.

David has decided he like Jesse's baby after all, and entertains her in various ways, to make her laugh. He gets a kick out of it. Anna and Jesse came to our house and spent some time having dinner with us, and watching a movie. David really liked having them over.

David can climb and jump over the 3 foot fence in our yard, and stay upright!

David has a game we play: "I love you, daddy," he says. My job is to say, "I love you, too!" If I don't say it right, David repeats his line.

In discussing David's difficulty in falling asleep at bed time, he told me that the voices tell him to stay awake. Then he tells me that it's the animals in his body: the charlie horse, and the butterflies. He gets the animals from the Operation game. He says that the animals sleep all day and play at night, and that's what keeps him awake. I had a conversation with butterflies in his stomach, and the charlie horse in his leg, that they need to let him sleep, but then I thought of an even better one: tell the animals (or other voices that keep him awake) that he can see them in his dreams, and that it will be more fun there.

Friday night, David had his dance recital dress rehearsal, and was all dressed up in his cute little outfit! I'll sent pictures up there with him, along with some video that I took. Saturday June 12 is his recital. David did absolutely great! And he was very good because he sat and watched all the other dancers before it was his turn.

So that's a week...

David Weekly, V3 - 20

Saturday before Memorial Day, David had a great time at the party we went to. Lots of people, lots of fun. He said several times, at the top of his voice for all to hear: "This party is awesome!" or "This is great!" Everyone got a big kick out of that. People would tell me how smart David is. David had lots of fun swimming in the pool "by himself"...this consisted of having a special floatie vest (the people whose pool it was allowed David to use it) and clinging to the side of the pool. There were lots of adults around, but I stayed close to the pool and kept an eye on him. He said something quite clever at one point, and I asked him how he knew that, and said, "I just thought about it." I hate that I can't remember what it was he said.

I think I mentioned last week that David really likes "Ultraman", and now he wants to fight me all the time. I figure I'll channel this desire into something which might be a better choice: karate. On our way to the party, we tried tk go by a place that practices the kind of karate that I would want David to learn, so he could see them in action, but they were closed, which surprised me. The type of karate I want him to learn is Goju-ryu, which is a hard/soft style of karate, and doesn't emphasize fighting so much as...the forms of fighting, which I find to be better than simply learning how to fight. We're going to try again this weekend to go and see if it's something he might want to do. He's a bit young yet, but I wouldn't start it until after he comes back from the Missouri, which means late summer/early fall.

Sunday, we went to Jesse's church, as part of the solution to David's "needs a friend" issues. He really liked Sunday School a lot, and asked to go every week. I've asked Jesse to see if she can connect us with the boys at her Bible study and their parents to arrange for play dates. David really wants to have someone come to our house, and he wants to be able to go play with kids his own age. That's also the rationale for karate: it's an activity he might be interested in, and hopefully there's other kids, too, his age.

We spent Memorial Day at his Mimi's house, and had a lot of fun! Mimi set up her pool in the back, and David and I spent lots of time in her pool. Douglas came over, too, and David and he just played and played and played, and had so much fun! When it was time for Douglas to leave, David cried for a long time. He really likes Douglas, and gets along w/ him very well.

Random from David: he tells me we need a new house so that we can have 2 bathrooms.

David started the week with two check marks, but then he missed Thursday and Friday because of a fever...which turned out to be strep. Thursday, I just thought it was a 24 hour kind of bug. He climbed into my bed, and was very hot! I gave him children's Advil (not the recalled kind, either), which helped for a while, but the fever came back, and this made him be very unhappy, whiney, and clingy. So on Day 2 of him not getting better, I took him to the Doctor, who diagnosed strep (and was very happy about it, too, because it wasn't an undiagnosable virus.) He's on amoxycillin, which I got free from Publix...We went to get a new thermometer at the drug store, and David wanted to ask the pharmacist what kinds of fruit helps fevers. Of course, none does, but David decided he wanted fruit anyway. Because we were in Publix, we did a little grocery shopping. And got peaches, apples, an orange, blueberries, and a few other things. While we were going around,
David sitting in the cart, he made a discovery: 2 + 3 + 3 + 3 = 11, and so does 3 + 2 + 3 + 3 = 11. He was very excited about it. I complimented his intelligence ("You're so smart!") and he replied that he likes being smart.

His fever has finally come down, and he's had two doses of the anti-biotic, so he's back to his usual self. We'll be continuing his treatment for 9 more days.